Category: Family Law in Canada

The Invisible Fight…Pt.8

Original Post: June 15, 2017

‘In order to achieve something you've never had, you

must first do things you've never done'

With the new baby born and the winter's first snowfall upon us ,we prepared and urgently make preparations to take baby home and figure life out after. That was the most important task at hand.

As i sat in our room at Ronald Mcdonald House , i remember going through brochures on getting the home ready for when baby goes home. We had secured an apartment 2 blocks from the hospital and things felt like they were coming around. I had my complete desktop in a plastic tote that took up a majority of space in my truck and it was also set up in the room at R.M.H. Nevertheless a normal life was starting to take shape.

My friend had left early that day as she always had to visit and be with her baby at the hospital. But today she was unusually late. She wasn't answering her phone and i felt something was wrong.

You see my friend's parents, who had come down to visit earlier in the year, were not your typical parents. And a far cry from my loving ,understanding and compassionate parents. Her's were controlling and manipulative and preconceiving nightmare of a duo that would ultimately do the unthinkable.

As she walked in the door i could tell something was very wrong and it would come to affect everything. In a malicious and intentional act of destroying a mother's will to live, they called family and social services on their own daughter, and told them bold faced lies, in order to take her baby away. And that's what took place.

My friend was bombarded by not 1 or 2 but 3 people pointing fingers and placing blame and before she knew what was going on her newborn baby would now be going home with someone else. On the court ordered plight of family and social services,on the basis that her and i would be incapable of ensuring the babies safety. Based on the false testimony of my friend's evil parents on the west coast and over 1800 kms away.

Does that seem right to you? Does that seem ‘just'? Fair? This is how that system runs. Anyone with a vengeful will and twisted tongue can call this government agency and tell bold faced lies and they act on it and alter the course of innocent people's lives. The pain that we have felt during this ordeal has been monumental to say the least and I still managed to piece together my online business.

So with heavy hearts and freezing weather we moved into our apartment. Moving all the baby furniture and new born outfits into a storage bin. I think that part was the hardest. It felt so surreal that i think i was numb and time stood still for the next 3 months.

The battles endured at that apartment ranged from people selling our belongings when we weren't home to people we had helped get on their feet threaten our lives because we couldn't afford to take care of them for free anymore. My desktop crashed so bad it took 3 days to reboot. It just wasn't designed to facilitate the work i was putting into it.

December 1,2016 to January 1,2017     Second Christmas in a row without seeing my son. Not even a phone call.  Revenue generated from my online business: $0.00USD. By far the worst month to have a worst month. But without money to invest into my business it would go dark within a month. I had to change something up. Both in my business and in my life. A radical change would need to occur if anything were to change.

So, that's what i did. In flurry of thoughts and preparations i made the choice to omit every negative person, thought and act out of my life and never look back. And that's what i did.

Overnight we went from not knowing what to do , to packing the house and leaving all the ‘bad' behind. Looking back i don't know what i was thinking but it somehow worked.

But it too would come at a cost. So we headed north, not knowing where we were going or how we would start over. We had 143 km to figure it out. The trials of perseverance and life would test us both in the weeks to come. And it all started here.


The Daughter Stabbed Twice….By Her Own Mother!

Original Post: June 12, 2017

An unexpected change of plans has just occurred to my friend that will surely bring emotions front and center. You see , my friend whom i have spent an immense amount of time with was currently in the process of being reunited with her baby.  He was taken from her in November of 2016 3 days after he was born. I had just touched on that in “The Invisible Fight….pt.7” and was not expecting to get to this point at this time.

Her world has just been turned upside down.  Her parents, who started and are responsible for her baby being taken away in the first place, have now gone ahead and done the unthinkable. One day before they are to be interviewed by agencies in British Columbia, they have decided to NOT go ahead and claim their blood grandson , and reunite mother and son, as to save themselves from what would surely be uncovered during the interview process tomorrow.

Can you believe such evil exists? How can it?

In essence this is what is now happening. Oct.2016 my friend is kicked out of her parents home,8.5 months pregnant,because I would NOT stay at their home where they could control ‘the situation'.  As it is my god dam right to decide and it was MY vacation, I chose to stay in a hotel. Like any other human being would do on their vacation.

Nov.4,2016 I fly to Vancouver Island to pick my friend up and drive her and her belongings to Alberta. Which seemed something loving parents would indeed be concerned about. Find out the next day,from her father,that the real reason was to just get her off the island and be rid of her! And land responsibility straight onto me in the process.

Nov.19,2016 Baby James is born in Red Deer,AB and 3 days later he is stolen from his mother by social services representatives under false testament by my friend's parents.

Feb.20,2017 My friend's mother resurfaces and pleads for forgiveness citing she acted ‘in malice and wanted her daughter to hurt by having her baby taken away' . Message 1 saved.

For at that point i knew we would be needing that piece of condemning data. She goes on saying she wants to help her daughter by putting in an application to have baby released to her mother and begin integration of mother and son. My friend smiles and is visibly happy for the first time in months.

June.11,2017 1 day before my friend's parents interview to finalize the last step before baby James comes home, they jump ship and tell my friend via email that she needs to prepare herself to ‘let her baby go!'

If this post makes your stomach turn and heart race then it should. Who does that? And Why would parents trying to make up for causing their daughter so much grief and pain, do it all over again just to opt out when so close to the end?

This is NOT over.

Please comment on this post as we need strong opinions,comment,emotions. Anything you want to leave. Ill be updating this post as information comes in.

And i haven't even touched on what and how this has come to complicate my life ,at the exact same time as i fight for my son in “The Invisible Fight”.

What is happening to the world? I never knew such evil even existed. At least not this close to home.

RL

 


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